CARE. FREEDOM! ENJOY IT. I AM NOT ABLE TO ENJOY MINE.
BECAUSE, MINE WAS TAKEN AWAY FROM ME AND THAT PERSON HAS BEEN LAUGHING HIS HEAD OFF SINCE!
I HAVE NO FREEDOM ANYMORE.
I WAS JUST A 50 YEAR OLD CON GAME WHICH HE PLAYED AND HE TOLD ME WHILE SCREAMING AT ME I WAS NOT GOING TO WIN THIS ONE!
BECAUSE HE TOOK ALL OF THE MONEY I HAD WITH HIM WHEN HE LEFT WHILE LAUGHING AND LYING.
PATHETIC BUT VERY TRUE….
LET THIS BE A WARNING/LESSON FOR ALL WHO READS THIS ARTICLE.
What would you do if all of a sudden one day without your knowledge, someone you were married to took your freedom away from you?
Your financial freedom, your housing and living arrangements freedom…. Your transportation freedom, your freedom to buy a newspaper, go have meals in restaurants, all the privileges you have enjoyed all your life since a child now gone and taken away from you. Your freedom to watch TV, have internet, have friends and family over all gone.
Friends and family was taken away from me gradually, that I never realized what he did until a few months after he left. Why?
To cover up the fact that he was unfaithful to me …… My family told me what they saw when they saw him at work at the hospital each night…. Taking females out to their car arm in arm with each other. At BGH in Belleville there was a part of the new hospital, where doctors and other staff members used to go to have sex while at work each day, it was empty but used a lot by staff members wanting privacy until they got caught in the act.
WHY? You ask!
Because he could.
This is my story of what happened to me……
We all think we enjoy FREEDOM to enjoy having money in the bank which you worked long and hard for, house that you also worked hard for, investments you also worked hard for, a vehicle you also worked hard for and drove for six years.
Then Bam One Day It Is All Gone…..
Disturbing isn’t it!
Pretty cruel and abusive behavior if you ask me.
I have been trying to figure out why for the past almost 3 years now? The answer is simple I was just a 50 yr old con game, a person he married which he said was a keeper as I refused to sleep with him before being married. He told me every day how much he loved me including the morning of our 44th wedding anniversary while we were having breakfast then two hours later he was calling the Police on me and telling me to enjoy my fucking day in jail bitch.
He might have been home 5 anniversaries for our whole married… Pathetic really in retrospect….
My FREEDOM of living and owning my own house is gone, owning a good truck again, financial independence I had through working 4 jobs at a time while raising my three kids by myself as my husband was always gone, only home 45 days a year for 44 years.
Unless of course you count the 11 years totaling his time at home during those 44 years, mostly due to his quitting jobs because he wanted to and told me about it while laughing Oct 2005 after arriving home from my doctors one day around 1600 hrs., that day.
He always laughed after he confessed or did something wrong, he had a very sick warped mind but again that was part of his abusive cruel behavior. A way to justify in his own mind what he had done was okay to him only…..
Now not only am I subjected to this but my animal family was also without any warning, one day living in my own house which I had paid for only. My husband called himself a whore which he was in more than one way, but he always talked about himself like that as he worked all over the world making the most money he could since before I met him. Jobs in which I made him take to improve the quality of our life so he would not have to work physically in a mine anymore and the last one which lasted the longest 10 years before he also quit that one and lied to me and said he was laid off, then I found out he had taken and was receiving a pension since 2010 and hiding the money somewhere else so I could not know what he had done or access it. He had his own plans and I was not included. I got him the last one and invested his paycheck when he was hired as he knew nothing about money and I did. Through me he ended up making 12 million or more dollars which he stole for his own use and benefit without my knowledge.
I never knew how important money was to him, until after I was married forty four years and evicted, but money to him was like god the more he made and saved the more godlike he got and self important he was to himself in his own mind at least.
He has forced me and over 300 animals which he purchased and encouraged me to increase to use as leverage against me to evict me from a house which I had purchased not him, he had no money in it, I was just foolish enough to have his name on the mortgage as we were married. I thought being married meant you shared everything half and half not to him all the money mine and his was HIS ONLY TO KEEP AND SPEND I WAS NOT ALLOWED ACCESS TO IT SO HE THOUGHT.
WOULD YOU LIKE LIVING IN A CAGE?
WELL WE DON’T EITHER…
ESPECIALLY THE ANIMALS.
MY DOGS CAN’T GO OUTSIDE AND PLAY ANY MORE!
I CAN’T LIVE IN MY OWN HOUSE ANYMORE!
I CAN’T BUY FOOD OR PAY MY BILLS ANYMORE!
I CAN’T GO TO TIM HORTONS TO BUY ANYTHING, CAN’T GO TO A SHOW, CAN’T BUY NEW BRA OR UNDERWEAR, CAN’T BUY NEW WINTER BOOTS, SHOES OR SLIPPERS…
I CAN’T BUY LIPSTICK… LOTIONS, GO TO A DENTIST TO GET MY TEETH CLEAN, GO TO A CHIROPRACTOR, OR SEE MY DOCTOR.
I CAN’T GO TO A DENTIST ANYMORE TO GET MY TEETH CLEANED EVERY THREE MONTHS FOR MOST OF MY LIFE…….
I CAN’T LET MY DOGS HAVE THEIR FREEDOM TO BARK WHILE OUTSIDE OR BE SEEN AS I HAVE TOO MANY OF THEM. I HAD TO PUT 3 DOWN DUE TO ILLNESS WITHIN 3 MONTHS OF EACH OTHER, AND GIVE ONE AWAY AS HE WAS BIGGER AND A BARKER AND WOULD NOT FIT INTO A RENTED PROPERTY.
I HAD BOUGHT AND RAISED HIM SINCE HE WAS SIX WEEKS OLD, I WAS THE ONLY MOTHER HE HAD I FELT LIKE MY HEART WAS BEING PULLED FROM ME THE DAY I HAD TO PUT HIM INTO HUMAN SOCIETY WHICH I KNEW WOULD NOT EUTHANIZE HIM BUT FIND HIM A GOOD HOME. HOPEFULLY THAT IS WHAT HAPPENED TO HIM.
SOME TIMES I HAVE TO DO WITHOUT MY PAIN MEDICATIONS FOR DAYS AT A TIME AND SUFFER FROM SEVERE ARTHRITIC PAIN 24/7 BECAUSE I HAVE NO MONEY….
CAN’T GROOM MY DOGS ANYMORE, CAN’T TAKE THE BIRDS TO VETS, and BUY MEDICATIONS FOR ANY OF THEM….. NO MONEY…
WALKING IN WHITE OUTS AT AGE 64 YRS OLD, AS I WAS FORCED TO DRIVE UNSAFE CAR WHICH HE HAD PURCHASED AND USED FOR HIS OWN PURPOSE AND DROVE TO THE GROUND AND LIED AND GOT COURT ORDERS TO TAKE MY TRUCK WHICH I HAD BOUGHT FOR MY OWN USE ONLY AS HE WAS NEVER HOME AND I ONLY DROVE IT. HE RARELY DROVE IT UNLESS WE WERE TAKING THE BOAT SOME WHERE THAT IS THE ONLY TIME HE DROVE ONE SINCE 1998 WHEN HE GOT HIRED ON AT SNC LAVALIN. WHY? BECAUSE HE FLEW TO WORK HE DID NOT DRIVE TO WORK!
HE REFUSED TO, SAID ONLY IDIOTS DROVE TO WORK EACH DAY BACK AND FORTH HE REFUSED TO.
WOULD YOU LIKE SLEEPING ON A COUCH FOR OVER THREE YEARS?
YOU DON’T REALIZE HOW GOOD A BED FEELS LIKE BUT I HAVEN’T BEEN ABLE TO SLEEP IN ONE IN THREE YEARS.
NO ROOM FOR ONE.
MY PETS ARE LIKE MY KIDS TO ME….
MOST OF THEM WERE BORN IN MY HOUSE, I WATCHED THEM THRIVE AND GROW. PLAY AND DIE IF ILL OR INJURED…
I AM A NURSE AND BELIEVE IN HELPING NOT DESTROYING NOT LIKE MY HUSBAND.
I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO GET DONATIONS FOR MY ANIMALS SINCE 2014 BUT NO ONE WANTS TO DONATE TO MY CAUSE.
I THINK BECAUSE IT IS BIRDS AND THERE IS A LOT OF MISINFORMATION AND MISCONCEPTIONS WITH THEM, LIKE AVIAN DISEASE, AVIAN FLU ETC.
THAT MIGHT BE TRUE BUT THAT WAS EMBELLISHED BY THE MEDIA IN THE EARLY 2003 AND LATER THE GOVERNMENTS USED THAT TACTIC TO EUTHANIZE A LARGE NUMBER OF BIRDS FOR THEIR OWN AGENDA AND PUBLICIZED IT AND EVERYONE BELIEVED IT.
THAT DESTROYS AND AFFECTS LOTS OF OTHER ANIMALS LIVES…….
I WATCHED OPRA FOR 30 YEARS, I ALWAYS BELIEVED SHE SAID WHAT SHE ALWAYS SAID SHE WOULD DO HELP OTHERS……
WELL, I HAVE CONTACTED HER SEVERAL TIMES WITH NEGATIVE RESULTS.
I HAVE CONTACTED ALL THE MEDIA OUTLETS OUT THERE, RADIO LOCAL AND METRO ALL ACROSS CANADA…..
EVERY MAJOY NEWSPAPER ALL ACROSS CANADA AND USA…
THE GLOBE & MAIL, OTTAWA CITIZEN, NATIONAL POST, TORONTO STAR, CNN, GLOBAL NEWS, ANIMAL PROTECTION AGENCY, ANIMAL WILDLIFE PROTECTION, ALL THE MAJOR TV SLOTS IN USA WITH NEG RESULTS….
I ASKED AN OLD NEWSPERSON WHY?
HE SAID THEY DON’T WANT TO HAVE A LAW SUIT ON THEIR HANDS, WHICH IS WHY NO ONE IS CONTACTING YOU.
MY LANDLORDS HAVE BEEN BREAKING INTO MY HOUSES.
BECAUSE THEY CAN, THEY OWN THE HOUSE THEY CAN AND DO USE ANY FLIMSEY EXCUSE THERE IS AND THE POLICE WILL LET THEM EVEN THOUGH IT IS AGAINST THE LAW.
IF YOU ARE A TENANT YOU ARE NOT BELIEVABLE ACCORDING TO THE OPP.
BUT! THE LANDLORD IS BELIEVABLE EVEN THOUGH THEY ARE TELLING LIES AND BREAKING THE LAW, THREATENING/HARRASSING/VANDALIZING TENANTS PROPERTY AND VEHICLES. THEY CAN AND DO WHAT THEY WANT AND NOTHING IS DONE ABOUT IT BY THE OPP.
I GUESS THE OPP IS NOT ABLE TO INVESTIGATE INCIDENTS VERY WELL, AT LEAST NOT IN MY CASE.
SEXUAL ASSAULTS INCLUDING HISTORICAL, THREATENING TO KILL ME FOUR TIMES IN LESS THAN 6 MONTHS, VERBAL/MENTAL/PHYSICAL/FINANCIAL ASSAULTS/RAPING OF MY TWO YEAR OLD DAUGHTER ALL DISMISSED BY OPP AND NOT INVESTIGATED THOROUGHLY.
WHY? ILLEGALLY LABELLING SOMEONE AS MENTAL AND ILLEGALLY TAPING THEM AS THEY ARE YELLING AT YOU. AFTER ALL HE WAS YELLING AT YOU NON STOP 24/7/365 WHEN HOME ONLY TIME NOT DOING IT WAS WHEN HE WAS ASLEEP, BUT LOW AND BEHOLD IF YOU RESPOND HE TAPES YOU WITHOUT YOUR KNOWLEDGE AND PERMISSION THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN YOU ARE DEEMED MENTALLY UNSTABLE. WHEN IN FACT THE PERSON TAPING YOU WAS THE CRIMINAL YOU THE VICTIM. BUT HEY, KEEP ON VICTIMIZING THE VICTIM BY USING THE COURTS, WITH NO PAPER WORK ONLY A WORD OF A CON MAN AND A LAWYER HE IS PAYING 3500.00 A MONTH TO ENACT HIS 14 YEAR DIVORCE PLAN WITHOUT YOUR KNOWLEDGE AS HE IS LOOKING FOR A ZERO, ZERO DIVORCE.
IT HAS BEEN ALMOST THREE YEARS NO MONEY PAID SO FAR, I AM SELLING MY FURNITURE AND ITEMS TO EXIST AND PAY BILLS.
VERY SAD BUT TRUE.
LET THIS BE A LESSON FOR ALL TO LEARN FROM. MAKE SURE IT NEVER EVER HAPPENS TO YOU.
I HOPE IT DOESN’T, BUT HEY YOU NEVER KNOW.
I ALWAYS THOUGHT MEDIA OUTLETS WERE THERE TO ADVISE THE PUBLIC OF NEWS, NOT JUST WHAT THEY THINK THEY WANT TO HERE, BUT NO…..
THEY MIGHT DO A LIVE, DO GOOD PIECE TO RAISE MONEY FOR A CAUSE OR PERSON, BUT EACH TIME I HAVE ASKED NO RESPONSE.
MY STORY IS JUST AS IMPORTANT AS ANYONE ELSE’S….
EXCEPT MINE HAS A LIFE’S LESSON AND A WARNING TO ALL WOMEN OUT THERE TODAY.
WATCH WHO YOU LIVE WITH AND MARRY?
THEY CAN STEAL YOU BLIND JUST BY HAVING THEIR NAME ON A PIECE OF PAPER.
MY HUSBAND SOLD MY FIRST HOUSE WITHOUT MY KNOWLEDGE IN 1982. I BOUGHT IT FOR 28,000.00 WITH THREE THOUSAND DOLLAR DOWN PAYMENT AN RRSP MY FRIEND AND BANK MANAGER AT THE TIME ADVISED ME TO DO AND I DID IT WHILE WORKING AT A HOSPITAL IN KIRKLAND LAKE, ONTARIO FROM 1973-1976.
I WAS WORKING AT A BANK, WHEN HOME FOR LUNCH, LITTLE DID I KNOW UNTIL MARCH 2016 THAT WHILE I WAS HOME EATING MY LUNCH, MY HUSBAND HAD WENT INTO THE BANK AND SIGNED MY OWN HOUSE AWAY. HE DID NOT HAVE ANY MONEY INVESTED IN IT, ONLY HIS NAME AS CO APPLICANT AS WE WERE MARRIED AND THAT IS WHAT OUR LAWYERS TOLD ME WE HAD TO DO. IT WAS MY FIRST HOUSE SO I BELIEVED MY LAWYER. NEVER AGAIN.
IN 2008 HE LAUGHED WHILE TELLING ME THAT BANK MANAGER THAT HE WAS WITH WHEN HE SIGNED MY FIRST HOUSE AWAY WAS ALSO A MASONIC LODGE MEMBER AND DRINKING BUDDIES. HE HAD BEEN CHARGED WITH 4 OTHER EMPLOYEES FROM THE BANK WHERE WE ALL WORKED AT BUT DIFFERENT TOWNS. DUE TO MY TESTIMONY HE WAS JAILED FOR 10 YEARS FOR STEALING 450,000.00 FROM THE BANK WHILE WORKING THERE.
I FINALLY FIGURED OUT WHY HE WAS LAUGHING WHEN HE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS IN JAIL FOR 10 YEARS DUE TO MY TESTIMONY AND HE WAS UPSET WITH ME. YOU SEE, JIM GOT CAUGHT BUT AGAIN HE HAD NOT, AS I DID NOT KNOW UNTIL LATER WHAT HE HAD DONE TO ME.
WE HAD A LOAN FOR 25,000.00 WHICH I HAD TO PAY ON FOR FIVE YEARS AFTER IT WAS SOLD. IT WAS VALUED AT 145,000.00. IN 1982 WHEN THE MINE HAD CLOSED.
HE HAD BEEN OFFERED A JOB AT HYDRO THEN BUT DID NOT TELL ME UNTIL YEARS LATER. I HAD A FULL TIME JOB WITH GOOD BENEFITS/PENSION ONE THAT I LIKED, DAY SHIFTS, NO NIGHTS, I COULD RAISE MY FAMILY AND WORK.
YES, I HAD TO WORK ALL THE TIME, BECAUSE IF I DIDN’T HE WOULD HAVE HIT ME AND RAPE ME AS USUAL. AS HE TOLD ME IN 1973 AFTER RAPING ME ONE NIGHT IN FRONT OF MY DOCTORS HOUSE WHICH THEY COULD SEE US AT THE TIME.
HE DID IT BECAUSE HE WAS JEALOUS AND THOUGHT I WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH HIM, HE WAS A YOUNG DOCTOR IN TOWN AND MY CO WORKER AT THE HOSPITAL WHERE I WORKED. SO HE DID IT TO PROVE TO HIM HE OWNED ME AND TO SHOW HIS SEXUAL PROWESS. PRETTY SAD AND SICK, BUT TRUE.
ALL THINGS HE DID TO ME WAS REPORTED TO POLICE AND NO CHARGES EVER LAID….
BECAUSE HE WAS FRIENDS WITH THEM AND GAVE JOBS TO THEIR WIVES OR THEM, BELONGED T THE SAME LODGE, DRINKING BUDDIES.
ME I WAS JUST A STUPID FEMALE, MARRIED AND OWNED BY A PERSON I MARRIED. LITTLE DID I KNOW UNTIL THREE DAYS MARRIED I HAD JUST WENT FROM ONE ABUSIVE HOUSE TO ANOTHER, BUT THIS ONE WOULD TURN OUT TO BE MY DOWNFALL AND WORSE LIFE ANYONE SHOULD EVER HAVE TO LIVE.
HE TOOK MY KIDS, MY GRANDKIDS, MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS AWAY FROM ME THROUGH LIES.
IMAGINE GETTING JOBS FOR ALL OF YOUR BROTHERS AND THEY EARNED GOOD MONEY OVER 70,000.00 PLUS MOST OF THEIR WORKING LIVES. BUYING HOUSES, CARS, TRUCKS, VACATIONS, ETC. WHEN I ASKED FOR 20.00 OR 80.00 AND A PLACE TO LIVE ALL I ASKED SAID NO.
IT HAS BEEN THREE YEARS NOW, NONE OF MY FAMILY HAS SAID TO ME INCLUDING MY KIDS DO YOU NEED HELP CAN WE HELP YOU?
I HAVE BEEN IGNORED BY ALL!
I SUSPECT JEALOUSY….
BUT THAT IS THEIR PROBLEM NOT MINE…
THEY HAVE TO LIVE WITH THEIR CONSCIOUS….. JUST LIKE I DO… EXCEPT MINE IS CLEAR AND CLEAN.
I HAVE ONLY HELPED PEOPLE MY WHOLE LIFE INCLUDING ANIMALS.
BUT NO ONE WANTS TO COME FORWARD AND HELP ME UNLESS I GIVE THEM MONEY….
YOU ARE A NO BODY, WHEN BROKE… I HAVE LEARNED THAT LESSON WELL.
INCLUDING LYING LAWYERS YOU PAID, YES PAID FOR THEIR SERVICES AND DID NOTHING BUT LIE TO YOU ALSO DUE TO THEIR NEGLIGENCE.
I AM ASKING FOR DONATIONS SO I CAN LIVE IN MY OWN HOUSE AGAIN, FREEDOM T O LIVE MY LIFE IN PEACE. MY HUSBAND REFUSED TO LET ME LIVE MY LIFE IN PEACE EACH TIME I ASKED HIM TO STOP FIGHTING YELLING SCREAMING AT ME 24/7 ALL OF OUR MARRIAGE AND REFUSED TO STOP.
BUT I WAS NOT AWARE HE WAS ENACTING A 14 YEAR DIVORCE PLAN WHILE STEALING MONEY FROM ME ALSO AS PART OF HIS PLAN WITH MY OWN TWO CHILDREN AND HIS GIRLFRIEND HE HAD SINCE 2001 AND HAD LIVING NEAR US AND WORK ALL OVER THE WORLD WITH AND I SUSPECT THEY KILLED TO GET RID OF HIM DUE TO THEM HAVING AFFAIRS WHILE HE WAS ALIVE AND LIVING IN AFRICA WHERE THEY MET.
PLEASE HELP ME.
KINDLY DONATE TO US SO I CAN HAVE OUR FREEDOM OF MOVEMENT AND LIVING ARRANGEMENTS AGAIN.
- AS I SAID I HAVE NEVER DONE ANYTHING TO ANYONE IN MY LIFE TO HURT THEM. ONLY HELPED. I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT MY LESSON IS THAT HE WANTED ME TO LEARN. I SUPPORTED HIM, PROVIDED A HOUSE TO LIVE IN, FOOD, TRANSPORTATION, HIS FREEDOM, NOW I NEED MINE AND MY ANIMALS FREEDOM AND SAFETY OF LIVING AGAIN IN MY OWN HOUSE.
I AM TRUSTING IN GOD TO HELP ME. I AM BEGGING SOMEONE OR AN ORGANIZATION TO HELP ME. THANKS.